Sunday 28 October 2018

The Change You Wish To See...

Hey lovelies!!!

Be the change you wish to see - that's what they all say right? The ease in which we say these words, however, is impeccable as they imply that the task at hand is quick and straightforward but my oh my it is not an easy thing to accomplish in the slightest. The idea of trying to change yourself when everything feels lost is one of the hardest things to do and I truly empathise if you're going through it too.

I must admit that if it wasn't for the support of loved ones, a few self help books and plenty of self care, I wouldn't have made it quite so far. The tough times are hard but what's harder is understanding that there will be moments when that feeling of loneliness becomes overpowering and you're left wondering how on earth you will ever come out the other side. I can understand that, to some extent, it all sounds a little dramatic but sometimes your feelings manifest themselves in a way that makes you feel like it's the end of the world and as if there's no changing the present moment, but it's possible! You have to focus on pushing forward and trying not to let those negative thoughts eat you up because they can do more damage than you might think, so don't let them win!

The concept of change has plenty of negative connotations to it and I don't know why as I'm sure that not all change is bad and not all of our situations require a person to stay exactly the same. I mean, in those final moments of each day, you have to be happy about the person you have become and the person you are becoming! You have things in your life that you didn't have before and they may end up becoming some of the most special things to you in the world! In some respects, those things may not have come to you had you stayed the exact same person. I guess that there is no real way of checking that theory for certain but I personally hope to continuously change and to continuously evolve to accomodate new positive traits, new positive habits and more improved relationships with those that I love! Ooooh yes, I'm all for that!

Be sure to leave me a comment down below telling me what positive changes you aim to make this side of the year! What do you think of making the changes you wish to see? Drop a line and let's chat!


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